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Beyond Hearts and Cupids: A Guide to Alternative Valentine’s Day Parties for Elementary Teachers

Read this guide for alternative Valentine's Day party ideas including activities, snacks, and crafts

Planning a fun and engaging classroom celebration poses a unique challenge for elementary teachers, unless you decide to plan an alternative Valentine’s Day experience for your students. In this guide, we’ll transform your Valentine’s Day party into an educational experience, exploring engaging activities and creative crafts that align with your science curriculum. Let’s redefine classroom celebrations, merging joy and education in the elementary classroom!

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Party ideas and themes

Letter to parents


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Classroom Valentine’s Day party ideas

Finding fun and unique classroom Valentine’s Day party ideas seems to get become more challenging each year. Deciding on a distinctive theme can help you focus and create a cohesive and enjoyable experience for you, your students, and your parent volunteers.

Consider these alternative Valentine’s Day themes for your classroom bash:

  • Red, White, and Pink
  • Look at Me! – Animal Adaptations
  • Hearts Beat – Sound Waves and Vibrations
  • Baby Animals Are So Cute! – Life Cycles
  • We Love Water – Freshwater Study and Care, Water Cycle, etc.
  • Molecules Are Close – States of Matter

Enhance your theme by tying it to your science curriculum. If you follow the Next Generation Science Standards, there are many ways to use your curricular goals as inspiration for your alternative Valentine’s Day celebration. Also, if the party falls at the end of your unit, it’s a great way to celebrate your students’ hard work and learning.

Deciding on an alternative Valentine's Day theme like hearts beat can connect the holiday to your curriculum and move away from the love theme the holiday is famous for
Valentine’s Day can be connected to your science curriculum, giving you more time to spend on the standards in a fun way

In the Next Generation Science Standards, Kindergarten students get to learn about reducing the impact of humans on nature (NGSS K-ESS3-3); celebrate the holiday with a love nature theme. 1st grade students get to learn about heredity in animals (NGSS 1-LS1-2); celebrate Valentine’s Day with an animal families theme. 2nd grade students get to learn about pollination (NGSS 2-LS2-2); celebrate the holiday with an insects and host plants theme.

3rd grade students get to learn about magnets, attraction, and repulsion (NGSS 3-PS2-3); celebrate Valentine’s Day with a magnets attract theme. 4th grade students get to learn about animal internal and external structures (NGSS 4-LS1-1); celebrate the holiday with an animal hearts theme. 5th grade students get to learn about gravitational pull (NGSS 5-PS2-1); celebrate Valentine’s Day with an attracted to the Earth theme.

Classroom Valentine party letter to parents

After you decide your alternative Valentine’s Day theme, it’s helpful to put together a classroom Valentine party letter to parents.This letter should include important information about your alternative Valentine’s Day party so that you and your parents are on the same page. Share the date and time with your parents and make sure not to waver from this commitment. Draft this letter in advance to give your parents the time they need to make arrangements for work or for younger siblings at home if they would like to volunteer.

Depending on the previous traditions of your school, it may be worth adding an explanation for why you are celebrating an alternative Valentine’s Day theme instead of a focus on love and hearts this year. Use positive words like “unity”, “community”, and “encompassing” to help your parents see the positive effect this change can have on your students and classroom as a whole.

When you send out your letter to parents make sure to stick to the information on the sheet like the date and time
Prepare this letter in advance to provide your parents an opportunity to get time off of work or get childcare for their children at home

Other important information  you could include in your letter are specific volunteer opportunities, how to sign up for those opportunities, and what your theme is. Some parents may be able to volunteer their time and help run games, activities, or assist with food. Other parents may be able to send in snacks or craft supplies. Many of your parents probably want to help your party in some way; share with them how they can get involved. Your classroom Valentine party letter to parents is a great place to share with your parents how to sign up to help.

Classroom Valentine activities

When you are considering classroom Valentine activities you can start with the common components of an indoor elementary school party. Consider indoor games, holiday party food, and holiday party crafts (see suggestions later in this article). 

One of the best ways to incorporate all of these experiences is to plan them as centers during your alternative Valentine’s Day party. Hopefully, you will have help from parents that signed up on your classroom Valentine’s Day party sign-up. I would suggest having at least two parents at your food and craft stations. One parent should be able to handle each game.

Sensory bins can be a great way to incorporate your theme like this bin full of beads that can be used to connect to your "molecules attract" theme
Look around your classroom to find things that would make engaging sensory bins

You can also think outside the box by considering indoor Valentine’s Day experiences as well. For your early childhood learners, sensory bins would make a wonderful center when considering classroom Valentine activities. If you’re working towards the “Molecules Are Close” theme, you could put together a molecule exploration sensory bin. The Keeper of the Memories put together three different levels of molecule exploration in this article, including building molecule models from cornstarch noodles, an atom sort with beads and pipe cleaners, and connecting atoms with puzzle-like connectors. Take a look at what you have in your classroom and get creative! 

She Loves Science took the concept of atoms and molecules to a larger scale and provided an opportunity for early childhood learners to build molecules with blueprints using craft sticks and paper plates.

If you’re going for the “Red, White, and Pink” theme, consider activities focused on color mixing. Sensory bags could be a fun (and mess-free) way to get your early childhood students mixing red and white to make pink. Pocket of Preschool shows off their color mixing paint sensory bags in this article along with other awesome color mixing activities for preschoolers. They include ideas such as color mixing finger painting, color journals, smash paintings, melting tissue paper, and more. Substitute red and white to make pink in these activities and you’ve got tons of ideas to get your alternative Valentine’s Day into tip-top shape!

Magnets like these pictured can provide your students with fun activities that are also easy to manage during your alternative Valentine's Day party
Centers are a great way to organize your Valentine’s Day activities, especially if they can be related to your curriculum!

If you’re working towards the “Magnets Attract” theme, there are tons of ideas out there for magnet play that you could put together for centers. Check out this list of 10 fantastic magnet experiments for kids compiled by Science Sparks. Primary Theme Park has a wonderful activity for working hard like the heart and could be a great challenge for your students enjoying the “Hearts Beat” theme for their alternative Valentine’s Day party.

For older students, consider something more mature that helps them work together. There are tons of escape rooms available for purchase online that your students would love! You could also put together a series of riddles to match your theme that you pose to your upper elementary kiddos.

Classroom Valentine party games

For classroom Valentine party games, consider creating or buying a Valentine’s Day-themed Bingo game that could be played together as a class. This can tie into your alternative Valentine’s Day theme if you’d like (see suggestions in the beginning of this article). It can also tie into your science curriculum if you just finished or started working on animal families, heredity, internal/external structures, and more.

"I Spy" and scavenger hunts can help get your students up and moving during your alternative Valentine's Day party
Games and activities with movement will help focus your students’ party energy in a constructive way

You could also play several rounds of Valentine’s Day “I Spy”. Prepare for these classroom Valentine party games by hiding a variety of theme-related things around your classroom and then have whoever gives the clues use preposition or spatial words like next to, above, below or other words you may be using in math or social studies.

You could put together or purchase an indoor scavenger hunt. Prepare for this activity ahead of time by deciding if this is a collaborative hunt where everyone works together, or if it is an individual hunt where everyone spreads out and works at their own pace. Then, you should put together clues to lead your students to the one or more Valentine’s Day-themed objects around the space. This could be extra special if you connect it to a story that you recently read about your alternative Valentine’s Day theme.

Classroom Valentine party food ideas

When contemplating classroom Valentine party food ideas, take into account the allergies in your classroom as well as the school’s policy on food. In light of the pandemic, more schools have moved toward pre-packaged items. Check with your administrator if you are unsure of your school’s policy on snacks. Make sure to share with your parents how they can help you by including your classroom Valentine party food ideas on your classroom party sign-up.

Like these brownies, selecting party snacks that relate to your alternative Valentine's Day party theme is fun
Selecting snacks for your party can be overwhelming but sticking to your alternative Valentine’s Day theme can help make it less stressful

To get you started with brainstorming, here’s a list of 5 Valentine’s-themed snacks that could work when considering classroom Valentine party food ideas:

  1. Strawberry ladybugs – These healthy snacks by Stacey at The Soccer Mom Blog use strawberries, blueberries, and chocolate melting wafers. You could ask a particular parent to prepare this homemade snack to be dropped off for your “Insects and Host Plants” themed party.
  2. Surprisingly decadent heart-shaped brownies – These chocolatey snacks by Two Healthy Kitchens have a surprisingly healthy-ish twist. They use brown sugar, whole wheat pastry flour, cocoa powder, baking powder, salt, eggs, unsweetened applesauce, canola oil, vanilla, and granulated sugar to create a delicious homemade treat. You could ask a specific parent to prepare these in their home and drop them off for your “Hearts Beat” or “Animal Hearts” themed party.
  3. Candy love bugs butterfly treats – These cute snacks from My Home Based Life use clothespins, pre-packaged snack sized M&Ms, googly eyes, pipe cleaners, glitter, and glue to make butterfly treats for your students. This could be a good option for parents to sign up to prepare ahead of time and drop off for your “Insects and Host Plants” themed party.
  4. Tootsie pop cherry valentines – This is a time-consuming but fun treat by The House That Lars Built. They require green crepe paper, green cardstock, white acrylic paint, a paint brush, a hot glue gun, scissors, and Tootsie pops. Consider asking a crafty parent to prepare these before your “Plant” themed party.
  5. Heart candy structures – This snack by Little Bins for Little Hands is an interactive and math/science-oriented option that uses pre-packaged food to allow your students to build molecule structures. A little yum and fun together!

Valentine’s class party craft ideas

When contemplating Valentine’s class party craft ideas, take into account the amount of time each craft will take, how easy it is to reset materials (if you are doing them in centers), and how your clean up will go. Creating centers with parents to help supervise can help save you a major headache! Make sure to share with your parents how they can help you by including your Valentine’s class party craft ideas on your classroom party sign-up.

Like this pour painting, crafts that are related to your theme can help extend the fun and learning
Finding crafts that are related to your curriculum will help you reach your standards in a fun and unique way

To get you started with brainstorming, here’s a list of 5 Valentine’s-themed crafts that could work when considering Valentine’s class party craft ideas.

  1. How to make a DIY stethoscope for kids – This craft by Team Cartwright uses paper towel tubes, funnels, tape, markers, and stickers and could work for your “hearts Beat” themed party. By taping funnels onto the ends of a paper towel tube, your students will be able to amplify the sound of someone else’s heart beat using their very own scientific tool. This project could work without the funnels as well; the sound waves just may not be amplified as much.
  2. Magnet arts and crafts for kids – This process art by Hands On Teaching Ideas uses magnet marbles (or other small magnets), magnet wands, paint, trays, paper, and tape and could work for your “Magnets Attract” themed party. Students get the opportunity to see how magnets stick together by dragging the magnet marbles through paint on top of the tray by moving the magnet wands around underneath the tray.
  3. Oil and water art – This process painting by A Girl and a Glue Gun uses vegetable oil or Pam spray, food coloring, cardstock paper, water, gloves, and pans and could work for your “Love of Water” themed party. Students get to see how oil and water do not mix by creating these paintings; a great illustration for encouraging ways to help keep our water clean.
  4. Exploring science with gravity paint pours – These gorgeous process paintings by Our Family Code use acrylic paint, plastic cups, canvases, newspapers, and paintbrushes and could work for your “Attracted to the Earth” themed party. It seems like it would be most successful if worked through step-by-step with students, so having a parent in charge of this craft at a center could be a really good option. These materials can also add up, so consider putting them on your classroom party sign-up sheet as donations from parents. Also, they need to dry overnight, so make sure you have the space for these to dry in your classroom before going home the next day.
  5. Create eco hero costumes from recyclables – Provide your students a variety of *clean* recyclables, hot glue guns, permanent markers, and masking tape to create eco hero costumes. This creative and exciting craft could go along with your “Love of Nature” theme and can be completed as a center with a parent overseeing and helping man the hot glue guns.

In a nutshell

As we conclude this guide to alternative Valentine’s Day parties for the elementary classroom, I hope you found inspiration to create new traditions and experiences for your students this year. These alternative celebrations offer a chance to create lasting memories while reinforcing essential educational concepts. So, seize the opportunity to infuse joy into your festivities, leaving a lasting impact on your students’ learning journey. Let the spirit of celebration and education intertwine, making this Valentine’s Day a truly memorable experience for both you and your eager learners!

Looking for activities to help you teach the water cycle as part of your Valentine’s Day centers? Check out my “Maple Syrup and Water Cycle Mini Unit for 2nd Grade” with ELA, science, and math activities!

Do you have any amazing suggestions for alternative Valentine’s Day parties? Describe them in the comments section to inspire a fellow elementary teacher to take action!

Looking for other articles about holiday parties in the classroom? Check out this other great read:

“How Do You Celebrate the Winter Solstice with Elementary Students?”

Read this guide for alternative Valentine's Day party ideas including activities, snacks, and crafts
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